Tuesday, July 15, 2014

How to Communicate Better With Other At Online

happy onion headExample of the chit-chat at online that you meet your lucky person that she/he willing to chat happy onion head
Apps source from the pictures: LINE, Naver 

well let me said about by today with this title laugh.gif

Communicate? what was that?  rclxub.gif

Definitions : From Oxford Dictionary 
1.Share or exchange information, news, or ideas
2. (Of two people) be able to share and understand each other’s thoughts and feelings
3. Succeed in conveying one’s ideas or in evoking understanding in others

well like this example that i obtained from my buddies site, Mr Tan Ji smile.gif

Originally post from sites :-)

Communication is without a doubt the heart of our everyday lives, and with the recent surge in mobile computing and information technology (IT) or any placed that you never before were people so closely connected to one another as we are now. People, including professionals are constantly corresponding to one another via emails, social apps like whatapps, viber, wechat , LINE, Skype or forums in their work. Social networking sites have mushroomed like a cloud and became viral over the past few years, enabling people to connect and keep up with what’s happening within their social circles. Gone were the days where we need to write conventional letters, or even travel that extra mile, just to keep in touch with our friends or loved ones.
Although it all sounds great here, the current online communication system is not flawless. Although immensely convenient and fast, emails, text messages etc. have lost the “extra touch” as compared to hand-written mails, messages or even verbal conversations. unknown words [Chinese called alien words]  are merely words with no “emotions” and “feelings” to them apart from the contents, especially so to those who do not know how to effectively communicate; often leading to inevitable disputes and misunderstandings.
Whether it is because of ignorance or mere inability to catch with the advancement of information technology, many people fail to notice the importance of online communication skills. A courteous and kind fellow in real life might just end up being a complete jerk in forums and etc; whereas an entertaining friend might be the too-serious-boring-and-nerdy chat mate that you’d always avoid etc (Split personalities! XD). Apparently the younger generations (as of 2012-nil) are much better (whether they are aware or not) at communicating online, probably because of the more frequent exposure to IT and mobile computing. Still, that shouldn’t stop you from improving yourself, regardless of whether you are already good or not~ Let’s start off with some tips for effective online communication! I have added in real life examples for certain point :-3 
Examples of the Online buddies

well here is the points that u need to taken :-) 

1. Be Civilized people aka nice people [Chinese called good samaritans] 
-You are a kind and friendly person in reality, why do you act completely opposite online, just because you are hiding behind a fake or anonymous ID [called DUPED ACCOUNTS :P] , or not facing the opposite party face-to-face?
-Never trolling, messed,  cursing, cyber bullying and fights are very rampant on the internet 
-Try to learning something that you never discovered it such as cooking, bonsai's, football talks, TCSS [Talk Cock Sing Song: Singaporean Slang. called talk crap]*

2. Be Clear and Direct
The problem with text communication is that there is a lot of room for misunderstanding. Whether you are communicating by email, on Facebook, or through text messaging or chat apps, it is best to be clear and direct. Sarcasm and humor do not always translate in the way that you anticipate.

3.Use Emoticons aka EMOJI 
it'll helps you along with your sentences, as an indicator of your expression(s) at that time. Since we don’t usually see each other when chatting, messaging, emailing etc. (apart from video calling), it is impossible to know the feeling and expression of our partners at that time, which might lead to miss-communication and worse, fights. This is even so if one of the parties have poor command of the language utilized. A clear example is shown in the picture above (not exactly emoticons, but you get the point laugh.gif), although the words are exactly the same, the meaning may be different if the expression is different.

4. Don’t be too serious, be enthusiastic! 
I’m sure we all have that friend who prefers to type everything in proper 1000% English or other lang.  Although there is nothing wrong with  ideal and style, chatting with them sure is bored maximum till *yawns*. This Serious disease is especially infectious among Professionals, highly educated people and (unsurprisingly) parents LOL. yada yada [Japanese called yes], we understand that your job req. you to converse professional but I’m sure it does not hurt to step out of the normal routine when not at work or when having informal online conversations. Adding a little bit of sense of humor  from time to time would be good for you *hiak hiak hiak* or facial like *ehehehehe* . Contrary to what most believed, spicing up your sentences will not tarnish your professionalism in the eyes of your friends/family; it will only make
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you feel friendlier and approachable :)
So, how to be “enthusiastic” while chatting, messaging etc.? Its simple; for starters, use more punctuation (especially the exclamation mark “!”) and occasional use of capital letters! They can be as simple as ” I love you!!!!” (vs “I love you”) or “I CAN’T WAIT FOR THE TRIP/MEALS or <insert action> !!!” (vs “I can’t wait for the trip”) yeah... :-/
From my goodies advice for you, especially for MAN, 
so the girl will expected you started to chat with her as well :)

5.Keep the conversation going! 
Another common problem with online chatting, texting, voice communications or etc. is the inability to keep conversations going even though the user might be pretty good at mingling with other people in reality. This is undoubtedly due to the lack of communication skills online. [yeah.. Sometimes human will *forgotten with this skills* doh.gif]

Here is example of the chats/commends
Examples from my personal FaceBook

And I'm sure that you can do it from the communications to others or your "targeted" person that you liked it :) . i trusted that start for those who before this, were oblivious to its importance. It is understandable that some of the points up there might be a little bit hard to accept or grasps for some (relatively more serious people), try to apply some “mild” ones instead. YET, just like communication in real-life, honing the essentials of online communicating skills is not something that can be done overnight, it takes great patience and practice. But it is never to late to start!
So, what are you waiting for? LET’S GO!! :D
Feeling daily communications are bad, shy, interovert, or anything, well just try to evaluate yourself at this links, 


or trying to watch few MV ,

Rachel Liang's - Every Relationships

Rachel Liang's- Still Friend

Pharell Williams- Happy
Bruno Mars - Count on me 
Emil Chau - buddy